Read the difference between marriage and relationships
A student asks a teacher, “What is Relationship? “The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the field, got through first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders “maybe there is a bigger one later”. Then he saw another bigger one But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he knew he has missed the biggest one which he regretted. So he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher told him, “This is Relationship” You keep looking for a better one but when later you realise, you have already missed the person”
“What is marriage then?” the student asked. The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the corn field, this time he was careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reached the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy and came back to the teacher. The teacher told him, “This time you brought back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get… “This is marriage”
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